Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Life's Provisions

Isn't it awesome how the Lord does things? His word is a thorough book that tells us stories and happenings of people that walked this earth before and after Christ's time. It's laid out in an order that allows us to read through a flow of events, and yet, within all of that, are reference points for us, here in the now of our lives.

Depressed? Lonely? Discouraged? Confused? Sad? Weary? Did you know there are verses throughout scripture for all of those and MANY more? All of the things we go through day to day, or even just for a season can be carried away from us through God's word. He tells us in Matthew 11:28-29 "Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls."

We're blessed to have such a thorough reference to find encouragement and peace through One who loves us so much and wants only the best for us. So much so, that He gave reference after reference through His word that we can apply to every situation, every circumstance, finding direction and solitude for any and every scenario.

Unfortunately there are times that we become so overwhelmed in a trial or emotion that we get mind boggled on the many verses we read, and where they are found in the word, to find peace through the storm. We know there's something in there to reference to that can give us a comfort and help us through, but the enemy attacks and tries to block the Lord's words of comfort from our remembrance.

It's ok to have trials! The Lord knew we would or He wouldn't have provided the rescue for them! Because of this, I've added three links to the top of my blog. You'll find a Sewing Kit, a Toolbox, and First Aid. Under each of those are categorized verses to help you through your time of need. Read them, use them, and carry them in your heart.... they are our life's provisions, written specifically for each of us.

Monday, June 27, 2011

Monday Measure


My "Monday Measure" for this week is:




And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him,
who have been called according to his purpose.

(Romans 8:28)


Hey! I love the Lord! I'm called! So guess what peeps?? No matter what comes my way this week, regardless how badly my flesh wants to flare up to huff, puff, fuss, complain, argue, or sulk... I can let it all go and be rest assured that it's going to be alright!

Why? Because He reminds me in this verse that it's all going to work out for the good, so why bother wasting my time with what the flesh wants to do in response! I'm going to sing, smile, laugh, rejoice, and ENJOY my week within ALL that I do, whether it be work, leisure, chores, errands, bill paying or child rearing, because NO stumbling block can contradict what the Lord reminds me of in His word! The situation may LOOK bad, the circumstance may SEEM impossible, the light at the end of the tunnel may APPEAR invisible, but it HAS to turn out good in the end because I love Him, I'm called, and HE SAID SO! Since it's all going to be alright, let's go enjoy the week!

What's YOUR Monday Measure?

Friday, June 24, 2011

An Unexpected Source of Conviction

When my hubby is on the road, I usually put on a movie or show of some sort to watch before falling asleep so I'm somewhat distracted from the idea that he's not there next to me. So last night as I curled up in bed I browsed through Netflix for something to watch. I have no idea why, but one of the "suggested titles for Jennifer" (as Netflix so considerately puts it on the screen), was a show called "Super Size Me". I remembered hearing about it a long time ago, but had no clue what it was. Out of curiosity I clicked on it figuring I could always exit out if it was no good.

I certainly didn't expect to watch the entire show, much less receive the conviction I had lingering in my mind and heart as the credits rolled the screen. To keep it as simple as possible, the guy in the show wanted to see what would happen if he lived solely on fast food with little to no exercise for 30 days. Obviously none of us (gosh, I hope none of us) are living one three meals a day from fast food joints, but what about the foods we're buying and preparing at home in addition to those quick stops while out and about at good ole Mickey D's? Not to mention, how busy do our schedules get that we blink and the day is gone as we collapse into bed from errands, work, kids, etc, without including in some exercise of some sort. I know, chasing kids, bending over to pick up laundry off the floor, walking the grocery store, and mopping the kitchen floor (especially when done all in sequence) sure feels like exercise on the old body some days when the days finally comes to an end... but more than likely, the blood isn't pumping enough to do the job that actual exercise provides.

And aside from the obvious gluttony in super sizing a meal at the fast food joint just to be able to devour an extra serving of those yummy fries, I know I'm not the only one guilty of having more junk in the pantry than I do fresh fruit and vegetables in the fridge. It's funny how the chips and cookies in the house are always gone in no time, but how often the fruit goes bad in the fruit bowl before anyone even realizes there's something in it... or how easy it is to whip up a pot of mac and cheese when a snack attack hits, yet how time consuming throwing a bowl of fruit salad together can seem.

So why is all this important? I caught myself in and out of actually watching the show as the images of greasy foods and overweight people on the screen gave me a realization. If we can find time in our week to hit up the shopping mall, read a book, watch a favorite television program, go see a movie, voluntarily sit on the phone for lengthy conversations, freshening our nail polish, and spending time on Facebook... what good excuse could there possibly be for not taking care of our bodies??

I Corinthians 6:19-20 says:
"What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's."

Briefly back to the show I watched:
As the guy ate poorly and exercised less than what his body was accustomed to prior to the experiment, he expressed ongoing headaches, depression, day long fatigue, and lack of motivation. Not one of those symptoms could be pleasing to God in reference to the above verse! Granted, we will all at some point be wore out or get a headache... but how much of this can be avoided by the food and exercise choices we make... especially if those symptoms are chronic ones in our lives effecting our temples!

Now, I'm certainly not saying that we should obsess over the size of our waste-lines or put gym time before God. Even I Timothy 4:8 says "For bodily exercise profiteth little: but godliness is profitable unto all things, having promise of the life that now is, and of that which is to come". However, exercise and proper diet are two of the most effective ways to take care of your body (God's temple!), to help give us the physical strength, stamina, and sound mind that bad eating habits (which can quickly result in gluttony) and poor exercise can rob from us.

So, if we combine spiritual and physical exercise (keeping into God's word and praying AND eating right with good exercise habits), we can be in better shape in the mind, body and spirit! Cramming our faces with sugars, sweets and grease becomes a self gratification to save us time cooking, making us lethargic, and distracting our minds and bodies from the better day we could be having otherwise. I'm not saying having cookies and milk after dinner or grabbing a candy bar snack on occasion is going to hinder our walks with God. What I am saying is choices develop habits. Habits can have consequences. Shouldn't the consequences of our habits be as glorifying to the Lord as a testimony we share or act of kindness we perform for someone?

Then I remembered our push mower. If you've seen our place, push mowing wouldn't be any one's first choice, in fact, with our next tax refund Mike wants to get a new riding mower. We have a four acre lot, half wooded, the other half... mow-able. I debated for a minute, then the whole "take care of your temple" thing came rushing back to mind from the previous night. It wasn't going to kill me to push mow our property!

I'm not even sure how long it took me to mow. However, I'm well aware of how I felt during the mowing! I sang songs of praise, I admired the nature around me from squirrels to flowers to the trees and clouds being moved by the wind, I prayed for family, friends, and lost loved ones in our lives, and at the same time, I was being productive getting a chore done that wasn't going to do itself. And bonus: I got some serious exercise in! Our property isn't a flat surface by any means... we have rolling hills all over the place that my legs and buttocks are still feeling hours later! The rest of my day flowed like a river... it was productive, I felt good, I was in a better mood, I smiled more, my phone conversations with my husband weren't so structured and tense because of stressful surroundings and feelings, and I ate a dinner that was good for me instead of a quick fix high fat meal to save time due to a stressed overload of have to's... I was enjoying my day rather than wondering when in the world the day would finally come to an end!

I love the way I felt today. I love the way a stupid show on Netflix opened my eyes, my mind, and my heart to a healthy alternative. I was able to take care of my physical and spiritual being today all at once. It's not the first time I've push mowed in my life, it's not the first day I've gotten some exercise or eaten better foods. But, with it having a better purpose than getting into a smaller size of jeans, it made all the difference in the world. It motivated me to keep at it without the intimidation of failing a diet ritual... it's instead opened a door to grow in the spiritual through the physical!

*Side Note*
As for the show "Super Size Me", I was a irritated at a couple instances of language used, and a scene displayed at the beginning... the show would have had the same impact without either of those included... so keep in mind, if you do decide to watch it, that it is rated PG-13 for a reason. Otherwise highly recommended as a very informative and eye opening presentation!

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Paintings in the Sky

If one were to peek into my pictures folder on my computer, not only would you find that I'm completely OCD about how my photos are organized (seriously, you have NO idea), but you would see an abundance of random shots. I even have a folder named "Random" (which has its own abundance of sub-folders). Within that folder are bugs, flowers, scenic shots around our town, rainbows, photos of the sky, wild animals we've come across, and the list goes on. I think my favorite folder within is shots of the sky.

I can take a thousand photos of the sky, and not one is alike. Not only did our Creator number every hair on our head, make each individual unique in appearance, and fill nature with an endless list of creatures, but He also reveals a special artistic talent with brush strokes in the great expanse above us. His color palette differs in every sunrise, and with every sunset He has the ability to take our breath away if we pause long enough to appreciate the beauty He shares with us each and every day.

I catch myself sometimes driving down the road glancing up at the sky. I tend to do that alot, especially if I'm driving east... I watch and patiently wait... but in the meantime I'm fascinated with how the sky literally paints a picture for our viewing pleasure. Even on a bad gloomy weather day He's found a way to make it beautiful.

The lighting, the shapes and textures of the clouds, how a storm looks moving in and passing by, how perfect the blues combine and endlessly expand on a completely clear day, how the rays of the sun dance and play behind and through the clouds, the variety in horizon backdrops and how they change just driving down the street, and the way a combination of it all creates a combustion of colors.

We have amazing creations around us folks. So even if a day is dreary and going poorly for us... look up. Enjoy what the Lord provides for us, not just our needs, not just certain wants in our lives, but even scenery that can sooth the soul.

"Great and marvelous are thy works, Lord God Almighty; just and true are thy ways."
(Revelation 15:3)

Monday, June 20, 2011

Monday Measure


My "Monday Measure" for this week is:




Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you:
not as the world giveth, give I unto you.
Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.

(John 14:27)


I'm often told (mainly by my husband) that I'm a lot like my dad. You rarely see him stressed out, worried, or bothered by anything. He literally goes with the flow. Knowing my dad, I'm also aware that this is a trait of his because he stirs the pot in other ways to relieve his frustrations... such as posting controversial political topics on Facebook, then sitting back to watch everyone around him go crazy with their responses... which in turn provides him with a laugh and he forgets what was bothering him in the first place (*sigh*).

I like to see it differently. I like to see my lack of bouncing off walls and blowing things out of proportion as a way of keeping my sanity. My view is, whether I worry about something or not, that the "thing" will still be present... so do I ruin my day by dwelling on it, trying to conjure up my own solution that could wind up way off track doing more damage, yelling at everyone around me because my day has been ruined by a situation or circumstance... or do I stop and say wait a minute, I WILL NOT allow this to ruin the rest of my day. It's happened... my immediate behavior is not going to pay the amount due on a bill or current expense, change the weather, alter my child's attitude, bring Mike home off the road, stop the dog from barking non stop at the squirrel out the window, change the cost of gas, repair what is damaged, or cause items on a to do list to become invisible (among a wide array of other ways in which a day can be attacked).

However, I DO have the ability to pause in the circumstance, take a deep breath, and absorb the peace my Maker provides for me! When young, we're expected to react promptly to what mom or dad instructed us to do... whether it be stop arguing with a sibling, doing the dishes, taking out the trash, cleaning our room, or answer a question... I don't know about you, but a response better happen fast or consequences came. So, how much greater should we respond to what the Lord instructs us to do. He said "Let not your heart be troubled"... I say, yes Father. He knows what is best for us, He knows what is to come, He knows our every need... whether we flip out when the need appears or not, He is still aware of it, and WILL provide for that need... we just have to accept that and allow His peace to overcome the circumstance before we allow ourselves to have our fits to fall into first.

So this week, I've decided to focus more on my reactions. Although I tend to not over-react or stress over things in general, my attitude can never have too much adjustment that focusing on this verse before I react won't help even more.

Lord, help me this week to pause before I react or speak regardless of the situation. Help me to envision how YOU would react to a circumstance or what YOU would say as a response before I allow the fleshly self to respond first. If nothing else, tie my tongue and hold control over my physical being, chastising even the thought of any reaction that is unlike one that represents you. Help me to follow by your example, and allow the peace you provide to comfort me, refusing to allow my heart or mind be troubled over any worldly appearances within my life. Amen!

So what's YOUR Monday Measure?

Monday, June 13, 2011

Monday Measure


My "Monday Measure" for this week is:

The LORD is good,
a strong hold in the day of trouble;
and he knoweth them that trust in him.

(Nahum 1:7)

This week I'm spending time on the road with my husband. I of course enjoy this because it's not very often my husband and I get time alone. As in any Christian's life, the devil seeks to destroy the goodness in our lives by throwing in stumbling blocks, obstacles, and trials. Last time I rode with Mike, we got one of those loops thrown at us through a phone call from our daughter's doctor. THIS time as I ride along with him, I'm going to enjoy it thoroughly without allowing the enemy to steal a moment of my joy.

This verse reminds me that HE KNOWS ME!! He's my stronghold in those twists and turns, and will ALWAYS see me through... and this week will be no different! His eyes are watching over our path and protecting our children while we're away from them. The verse sums it up in the first four words: the Lord is good!!

What's YOUR Monday Measure?

Monday, June 6, 2011

Monday Measure

How often have you seen or (more likely) used the coined acronym TGIF? I understand after a long week of work or busy agendas that the weekend is one many look forward to... perhaps covet is more like it. Why does the week itself have to be seen as such a bad thing? Perhaps the only reason Friday looks so joyous to so many is because the rest of the week is approached the wrong way!

Because of this, I've decided to create for myself a Monday Measure to set a precedent for my week. Measure is defined as a portion, standard, rule, or a scope. Only we can set the standard for how our week is  going to be. The day showing on the calendar shouldn't determine for us how that day, or the days to come, are going to lay out for us. Perhaps Friday looks so promising because we set ourselves up for failure as soon as we roll out of bed Monday morning... but that can be adjusted! Let's TGIM (Thank God It's Monday) for a change!

Anyone else that wants to give this a shot is more than welcome, but I've decided to use this as an accountability source between me and God. What better way than to use His own word to lay a foundation for myself and the week to come.

My "Monday Measure" for this week is:

The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in him, and I am helped:
therefore my heart greatly rejoiceth; and with my song will I praise him.
(Psalm 28:7)

This week, when the day seems to boggle me down, when struggles come my way, and when I feel discouraged or overwhelmed, I'll have this verse written on a note card to read aloud, reminding myself that He is there to carry me through the day when I trust in Him, helping me through every step... regardless of what day it may be!

What's YOUR Monday Measure?

Friday, June 3, 2011

Do It Anyway



People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered...
Forgive them anyway.

If you're kind, people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives...
Be kind anyway.

If you're successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies...
Succeed anyway.

If you're honest people may cheat you...
Be honest anyway.

What you spend years building, someone may destroy overnight...
Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, others may be jealous...
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today people will often forget tomorrow...
Do good anyway.

You see, in the end it's all between you and God...
It was never between you and them anyway.

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Your Tongue Holds Power!

I'm a Facebooker... no doubt about it. I keep up on everything there from personal life to business. As large as my family is between my side of the tree and Mike's side of the tree, half of the people on my friend's list are family members, so it's a great way for us to keep in touch with family, let them know what we're up to or how we're doing, and vice versa. We also have friends across the country (and even some abroad) that we don't get the chance to talk to as often as we would like, so it's nice to check in on them and let them know the thought is there.

However... is it just me or is negativity streaming through your news feed too?? It boggles my mind every time I sign on and see post after post of negativity, complaints, drama, and confusion! People! God is NOT the author of confusion! We are to be spreading joy, comfort, peace, goodness, and love to those around us!

In the winter months it's too cold. In the summer months it's too hot. Too much rain. Not enough rain. When school is in session it's too early to be up. If school is out of session kids are driving parents nuts. Too tired. Overworked. Underpaid. Stressed. Irritated. Needing naps. The day went too fast. The day is creeping by too slow. SO MUCH NEGATIVE!

There is POWER in our words. If you don't like how your day/week/month/year is going, then speak differently... speak words that encourage positive changes as if it were so. If all we speak is negativity, then it's no wonder the day isn't going better for us! Proverbs 18:21 says "Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof". Your tongue may not physically be able to alter the weather, change your child's habits, move the hands on the clock, or clear your mind of the days to-do list... but your attitude toward your surroundings and situations CAN be changed by what you speak.

Watch what you say (or in a case like Facebook what you type), because we are accountable for every word. Matthew 12:36 reminds us "...that every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment". Picture yourself standing before God on Judgement Day. He presses "play" on the tape recorder of your life. Will it be complaints, problems, stresses, irritation, worries, griping, and confusion? Or will it be pleasing to His ears because there is rejoicing for what is, was, and is to come? You never know who is listening to (or reading) what you have to say, so make it something uplifting, thankful, encouraging, happy... POSITIVE!

It is said that anything done deliberately for 14 days in a row will ultimately become a habit. I challenge you to speak, post, type, and even mumble positively for 14 days. Each time something negative accidentally slips out, contradict it with a positive. Influence the world around you with goodness... it all begins with the words sitting on your tongue!